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We are the Hotbed Collective.
 
We are making life better one orgasm at a time with our podcast The Hotbed, and our new book More Orgasms Please: Why Female Pleasure Matters. We also have a decent Instagram account. We are mainly Anniki Sommerville and Lisa Williams, but we are also sometimes Cherry Healey.

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February 25, 2018

We want The Hotbed to be inclusive and have male and female perspectives on sex and relationships. In this post a Dad shares his experience of going through a sex break with his wife and how he looks forward to things picking up again. It's important that we keep these...

December 19, 2017

A little while ago, I wrote (another) anonymous blog, wondering whether having surgery would help me to rekindle my sex life. And no, not that, kind of surgery, but intricate surgery to repair parts that had suffered after giving birth to two children within two years....

September 12, 2017

(Image; 'The Boys Are Dreaming Wicked,' by Sir Peter Blake)

Let me just say this: I used to love sex, and now, well, now I don’t care for it much.

My husband and I met nearly 6 years ago. As all new couples we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, the sex was great, fa...

September 3, 2017

Each week we tackle a different sex problem her at The Hotbed Collective. Do you have a problem which you would like us to help sort out?

Then email us at www. thehotbedcollective.com This is the fourth in our series. Dr Karen Gurney, @thesexdoctor on Instagram, and dir...

August 27, 2017

Each week we tackle a different sex problem her at The Hotbed Collective. Do you have a problem which you would like us to help sort out?

Then email us at www. thehotbedcollective.com This is the third in our series. Dr Karen Gurney, @thesexdoctor on Instagram, and dire...

August 23, 2017

I’ve long thought the phrase ‘losing your virginity’ odd. No one wants to be a loser. Losing sounds a bit careless, a bit bloody insipid.. Surely, you are gaining something – something amazing, something powerful, something good. Losing meant someone else was taking –...

August 19, 2017

Each week we tackle a different sex problem her at The Hotbed Collective. Do you have a problem which you would like us to help sort out?

Then email us at www. thehotbedcollective.com This is the third in our series. Dr Karen Gurney, @thesexdoctor on Instagram, and dire...

August 6, 2017

Do you have a sex problem which you would like us to help sort out? Then email us at www. thehotbedcollective.com This is the second in our series. Dr Karen Gurney, @thesexdoctor on Instagram, and director of the Havelock Clinic, answers one reader question......

June 28, 2017

I have known and done sod-all about being an alcoholic for more than 15 years. I have lost count of the stupid-assed things I have done while drunk, some I probably can’t remember! Yet through 11 years of hell my husband has stood by me, rock-solid.

Until the shit...

June 25, 2017

It's dangerous to stereotype gay men but the truth is that many are more in touch with their sexuality and needs than your average straight woman. That's because as women we're often made to feel ashamed for liking certain things or even ASKING a partner for something...

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About us

We are Anniki and Lisa, and we want to talk about sex. Sex after a 14-hour day of work and parenting. Sex rather than watching five hours of Breaking Bad. Sex after ten years of being in the same bed as each other. Sex when you're single but none of your friends are. We want to talk about sex without even mentioning penis straws. Like actual grown-up sex. Thank you. Please join in. It's not always easy to talk about it but it's much easier to talk about it together. #backinthesack. 

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